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Social Language Dictionary Students with pragmatic language disorders or ESOL students can keep this in a binder and write unfamiliar or confusing language when then hear it. Posted 11/15/06.
SocialLanguageDictionary

Proxemics
Social skills worksheet for secondary students by Joan Altimore and Ann Peck. Posted 12/4/06.
Proxemics Social Skills

Proxemics Materials Graphics to teach and monitor the use of personal space. Labels can be printed on Avery 5160 labels to "peel and stick" on situations (see Proxemics materials above). Created by Debbie Dungen. Posted 1/21/07.
Personal Space

Personal Space Labels


Choices and Have-to-Do's Social Story to help students know when they can make choices and when they simply have to comply. Created by Diedre Dobbels. Posted 2/8/07.
Choices and Have To Do

No Potty Words Social Story
to teach appropriate use of language in social situations. Posted 1/29/06.
Potty Words Story

Going to McDonald's Social Story with sequence strips. Posted 3/13/06.
McDonalds Directions

McD cover

McD 1

McD 2

McD 3

McD 4

McD 5

McD 6

McD 7

Sequence

Sequence Strips


Social Skills Rule Book
Interactive lessons for individuals or classrooms on a variety of social situations and rules for behavior. Posted 3/19/06.
Rule Book Directions

Cover

Angry at Friend

Angry at Teacher

Borrowing from Friend

Eat at Table

Homework

In Cafeteria

Into School

Leave Classroom

On Playground

Play Game

Taking Test

Talk to Friend

Talk to Someone you Like

Talk to Teacher

Wait in Line


No Middle Finger Social Story Written by Kim Mourlas to teach appropriate use of hands. Posted 4/18/06.
Middle Finger Story


S
ocial Kiss Social Story created by Kim Mourlas. Posted 4/27/06.
Social Kiss


Conversation Tips Posted 7/25/06.
Tips for Having a Great Conversation


Turn Taking Materials Posted 8/8/06.
Good Turn Taking

Good Turn Taking2

Not Turn Taking

Not Turn Taking 2


Turn Taking Materials Posted 8/8/06.
Turn Taking 1

Turn Taking 2

Turn Taking 3

Turn Taking 4

Turn Taking 5

Turn Taking 6


Tea Party Sequence
Photo for teaching script-based symbolic play. Developed for a preschool child with autism. Posted 8/8/06.
Teaparty Pix


Nose Picking is Gross Social Story by Valerie Fluhr. Posted 10/11/06.
Nosepicking1

Nosepicking2

Nosepicking3

Nosepicking4

Nosepicking5

Nosepicking6


Find Out Aids
to help adolescents engage their peers in conversation. By Rosemarie Donatelli. Posted 11/7/06.
Finding Out1

Finding Out2



Social Skills: Providing Negative Feedback Positively


Negative Feedback


Visual/Verbal Prompts to Expand Utterances
Expanding Utterances


Time's Up!
Visual aids for staying on task and transitioning when the task is done.
Times Up Directions

Times up

Stop Work1

Stop Work2


Visual Prompts for Conversation
These sentence strips can be used by an individual in a communication book or as a visual prompt for learning these social skills: how to ask questions and how to have a conversation. By Kim Scharoff.
Sentence Strip1

Sentence Strip2

Sentence Strip3

Sentence Strip4

Sentence Strip 5

Sentence Strip 6

Sentence Strip 7

Sentence Strip 8


Interrupting Visual Cues to help improve conversational behaviors.
Interrupting Cues


Social Story for Going to a New School

Going to a New School

New School 1

New School 2

New School 3

New School 4

New School 5

New School 6

New School 7

New School 8

New School 9


"I Don't Know" Strategies
Posted 9/19/05.

I Don't Know Strategies


Asking for Help Strategies Posted 9/19/05.

Asking for Help


Friendship Poster A classroom activity. Posted 9/27/05.

Friends Behavior Labels

Good-Bad Friend Cards


Behaving Respectfully
Social Story



Respect 1

Respect 2


Conversation Book for use with individuals, group, or class. Students illustrate each page to reinforce good conversational skills. Written examples can also be added.
Conversation Book

Conversation Steps Poster


Raising Your Hand Social Story


Raising Hands


Social Stories to reinforce positive behaviors


Quiet Mouth

Homework


Conversation Topic Cards to stimulate conversation and provide speech/language practice in a small and large group
Group Conversation


Describing People Graphics help students with language impairments and autism provide descriptions of people.
Describing People

What's your Favorite? Why? Pair students and give each a copy of the interview form. Students take turns interviewing each other, circling their partner's answer if on the form, or drawing/writing in the "other" box if not. Bring groups together to report on their partner's favorites and explain why these things are preferred. This is a good "get to know you" activity for the beginning of the school year.
Favorite Interview


Hands to Myself Social Story by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 9/26/07.
Hands to Myself1

Hands to Myself2

Hands to Myself3


Tantrums Don't Help Social Story by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 9/26/07.
Tantrums 1

Tantrums2

Tantrums3


Emotions Social Stories
created by Michelle Smith. Posted 9/26/07.
Feeling Happy

Feeling Sad


Synonyms for Emotions Created by Jen Seymour, submitted by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 9/26/07.
Feelings Synonyms Directions

Angry Blank

Angry Filled

Happy Blank

Happy Filled

Sad Blank

Sad Filled

Silly Blank

Silly Filled


Steps to Calming Down A poster for self-regulation. Created by Chrstine Silvestri-Crawford. Posted 11/20/07.
Calm Down


Voice Control Graphic for appropriate volume in the classroom. Print on card stock and write numbers 0-12 to show incremental increases. Created by Christine Silvestri-Crawford. Posted 11/20/07.
Voice Control


Hula Hoop Space Social Story for maintaining social distance. Created by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 12/29/07.
Hula Hoop1

Hula Hoop2

Hula Hoop3

Hula Hoop4


Emotions Interactive Materials for matching events to emotions and eliciting experiences of students related to emotions. Created by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 12/29/07.
I Feel When Directions

I Feel Excited A

I Feel Excited B

I Feel Frustrated A

I Feel Frustrated B

I Feel Happy A

I Feel Happy B

I Feel Mad A

I Feel Mad B

I Feel Sad A

I Feel Sad B

I Feel Scared A

I Feel Scared B

I Feel Silly A

I Feel Silly B
Social Stories by Shanda Mushrush.  Posted 3/19/08.



Going to Wendy's
Going Bowling
Illness
Illness Directions
Illness Symbols1
Illness Symbols2

"Nosepaper" for nosepickers.  Created by Vicki Pappas.  Posted 3/19/08.
Nose Flash

Following School Rules Social story from Kristine Hampton.  Posted 4/3/08.
I Need To Follow Rules

Gym Class Social story from Kristine Hampton.  Posted 4/3/08.
Gym Class

Picking My Fingers Social story from Kristin Hampton.  Posted 4/3/08.
Picking My Fingers
SpongeBobSaysPowerCard
 
Going on a Field Trip Social stories.  From Shirby Thomas. Posted 4/3/08.

Field Trip Story Directions
Going on a Field Trip
Going to the Circus

Friendship:  Questions to help a student decide "is this person my friend" based on positive and negative behaviors.  Also instructions on "what can I do for a friend?" and "what can my friends do for me?"  Created by Gretchen Curtis. Posted 4/13/08.

IsThisPersonMyFriend-Positive
IsThisPersonMyFriend-Negative

Things I Can Do for My Friend

Things My Friends Can Do for Me
 
Play Date Social Story  From Gretchen Curtis.  Posted 4/13/08.
Playdate 1
Playdate 2
Playdate 3
Playdate 4
Playdate 5
 
Safety Social Stories by June Cabal.  Posted 6/5/08.

Say No to a Stranger 1
Say No to a Stranger 2
Keep it Safe at Home

Table Manners Guide by Kristina Zeits, BCU #22.  Posted 6/5/08.
Table Manners 
 
April Fool's Social Skills created by Kristina Zeits, BCIU #22.  Posted 6/5/08.
April Fool's Social Skills
 
What is Bad Touch? Created by June Cabal.  Posted 7/23/08.
What is Bad Touch?
 
Keep Safe with a Buddy.  Created by June Cabal. Posted 7/23/08.
Keep Safe with a Buddy 
 
Taking a Public Bus. Created by June Cabal.  Posted 7/23/08.
Taking a Public Bus 
 If/Then Grounded behavior and consequences.  By June Cabal.  Posted 7/23/08.
If/Then Grounded 
 
Lunch Bunch Checklist. Created by Amy Staletti, BCIU #22.  Posted 9/28/08.
Lunch Bunch
 
When Noise Hurts Social Story Created by Pam Caspar-Hunter. Posted 9/28/08.
When Noise Hurts Title
When Noise Hurts1
When Noise Hurts2
When Noise Hurts3
When Noise Hurts4
When Noise Hurts5
When Noise Hurts6
When Noise Hurts7
When Noise Hurts8
When Noise Hurts9

When Noise Hurts10
In the Group Song by Amy Staletti, BCIU #22.  Posted 9/28/08.
In the Group 1
In the Group 2
In the Group 3
 
No Touching  Social Story and worksheet. Created by Carrie Drake Akee.  Posted 10/15/08.


Touch One Page
Touch Worksheet
Touch1
Touch2
Touch3
Touch4
Touch5
Touch6
Touch7
Touch8
Touch9
Touch10
 
Social Stories about Doors and Initiating Interactions by Patricia Calley.  Posted 10/15/08.


Doors
Initiate 1
Initiate 2
Initiate 3

Simon Says Game
Created by June Cabel.  Posted 11/3/08.
Simon Says Game
 
Supports for Initiating a Topic and Greetings.  These visual representations for initiating greetings & topics can be laminated and placed on students' desks. The students can check the boxes for each day that they initiate a greeting with a friend and/or teacher or initiate a topic of conversation.  Created by Caren McCoy.  Posted 11/21/08.
Initiating a Topic
Initiating Greetings
 

First in Line Social Story by Christina Prohaska.  Posted 11/21/08.


First in Line1
First in Line2
First in Line3
First in Line4

Keeping Hands and Feet to Yourself Social Story by Sarah Patton.  Posted 1/25/09. 
Keeping Hands to Yourself
 
What I Can Lick Social Story by Sarah Patton. Posted 1/25/09.
 What I Can Lick
 
Isaac's Social Story

Isaac's Social Story
Greeting Social Story for students who have difficulty greeting peers. Use copies of the Boardmaker pictures to sequence the steps:  Walking in and saying or waving hi and then walking in tapping a friend and saying hi. Contributed by Katie Patton.  Posted 3/15/09. Greeting Social Story
 
Conversation Materials  Created by Megan Hajnacki.  Posted 3/29/09.
Conversation Checklist
Ways to Kick Off a Conversation

This Helps Me Fix My Problem Social Story by Gretchen Mills.  Posted 5/3/09.
 Helps Me Fix
 
Tantrums Don't Help Social Story by Gretchen Mills.  Posted 5/3/09.
Tantrums

 
Yes to Teachers Social Story by Gretchen Mills.  Posted 5/3/09.
Yes to Teachers
 
Real Friends Never Ask Us to Do Bad Things Social Story by Judith Branch.  This story is aimed for that age group or even kids up to 12 or 13 depending on level of maturity, to address what "real friends" are and what kids  can do to avoid being victimized by kids who just want them to do nutty or dangerous things.  Posted 5/3/09.
Real Friends Never Ask
 
My Weekend Graphic Organizer to aid in social conversation.  Created by Dominique Simone.  Posted 6/8/09.
My Weekend Graphic Organizer
 
Social Story Books with comprehension questions.  Created by Jennifer Kupchik.  Posted 9/13/09.

Sometimes I Feel Angry
Playing Games
Saying Hello and Goodbye

 
On the Rug in Kindergarten Social story created by Gretchen Mills.  Posted 9/13/09.
On the Rug
 
Social Stories Created by Kara Rakowski.  Posted 11/1/09.
 
Joining in book - steps
Listening book
Listening steps
Nice Talk Directions
Rules2
Rules for talking with a friend
Sharing Book
Voice Tone
Waiting Steps
Waiting Story
Walking in line story
Asking for help
Circle time
Following Directions steps
Following Directions
Getting a person’s attention
Getting dressed story
Giving Directions
Interrupting book
Interrupting steps
Frustrated Sequence2
Wash hands
Winter Dress sequence
Winter Dressing sequence2
Bathroom
 
Ask/Give Info Card Game for conversation skills.  Created by Valerie Hannah.  Posted 11/5/09.
 
Ask/Give Info Game
 
Social Story -- Help Me  This social story was written to encourage students to ask for help within the classroom setting.  Created by Margaret Connors.  Posted 11/5/09.
Social Story Help Me





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